Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Quite personal
















June 19th --- father’s day!! Whenever I heard days of celebrations such as father’s day, mother’s day, Valente’s day... I really wonder that do we really need a day to remember them? To honor them  or to love them? I have seen many of my friends express their love, gratitude for their dad, mom, teachers and their better half through the social community sites like face book ( which is now considered as an inevitable, as far as this era is concerned) . But is it necessary for us to celebrate a day to remember our parents, our teachers and our better half too? I don’t think that a special day can confirm our love to them. Why can’t we express our love to our beloved ones on the day we want? Is the virtue of our love diminishing every year that these days become a sort of renewal date? Or do we need only a single day to make our mom feel special?

Why we need to wait for a day, some body else has decided? Why can’t we make use of each moment and say our loved ones that they mean a lot to us?

I am not against celebrating these days. Now I too know that these days are becoming the part of our culture too. But, some times while going through the status messages of my friends, I do really felt, that was too much and sometimes I felt weird too. Some days back... I had come across a status message and I really felt awkward. It made me to think like why do I want to show that I love some one and I take loving care of them? Why do I want to show others that you are so sad because of some person or incident? (I don’t want to disclose who and what teh incident is  coz it might hurt them).

I am not saying that we should not love one another or stop expressing our love for our companions. I simply do not want to keep reassuring them that I love them. But intimacy, love, friendship or what ever it may be, relations are purely private and personal issue, I believe. How can we share those feelings to the world? I never understand those who post such things as their “status” message. And what will you get as response? I must be a “like” or share or comment on it. Do you really care for that? I don’t think so.

I will definitely celebrate my love to my dad, mom and love for every one. I will love them and care for them until I stop breathing, I will definitely make them feel that they are so special to me. But not in a way set by some others.

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